Book Review: Vyckie Bennett of the Nebraska Civic Digest (Aug. 2004)

"Why is staying together such a struggle for American families? Divorce is rampant, but it is only the most obvious example of family separation. For most of us the problem is much more subtle. In our culture, it can be hard even for loving Christian couples to develop family togetherness. Why is this so? Some of the challenges are obvious, but others may surprise you." - James McDermott, co-author of The Christian Family.

Marriage, children, parents, child discipline, keeping the home, courtship, counter culture, inspiration - who but the most bold would endeavor to address such an array of topics as they relate to the Christian family in modern America? Authors James and Cynthia McDermott, publishers of SALT Magazine, do not claim to have all the answers. But as homeschooling parents of eleven children, the couple has certainly accumulated plenty of practical experience which translates into a goldmine of wisdom for today's families who can use all the help we can get.

The format of the McDermott's book, The Christian Family: In the World, but Not Of It, is a collection of essays - sometimes humorous, but always touching - which makes this an easy read. Despite the relaxed, let's-talk-over-a-cup-of-tea style, this book is challenging. Husbands, wives, moms and dads, siblings, and even pastors will find themselves re-evaluating long-held presuppositions about their biblical roles in relation to the Christian family.

In a day when Christians are too often superficial, diligently portraying themselves as always happy and successful, the humility of this couple is truly refreshing. Jim and Cindy candidly share not only the triumphs but also their shortcomings and failures. Such transparency only serves to bolster the McDermott's credibility as they tackle even the controversial subjects of birth control, spanking, modesty, courtship and marriageable age, family TV policy, submission, working moms, bankruptcy, Church youth groups, and what age children should be taught about sex.

There is much insight and practical wisdom to be gained from the McDermott's book. The brief essay, Motherhood: Dirty Diapers and Child Evangelism alone is worth the purchase price. Helpful hints on household organization, time and money management, praying for our children, lost children, and newborn babies, make The Christian Family invaluable. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, distracted, discouraged, under-appreciated, stressed out, burned out, or just plain bewildered on this roller coaster ride called the Christian family, this book is for you.

You can order The Christian Family: In the World, but Not Of It online at www.saltchristianpress.com. If you want to order by mail, send $14.99 for each book to SALT Christian Press, 2131 W. Republic Rd. #177, Springfield, MO 65807.